Read 1 John 4:7-21
We say "I love you," an awful lot. We use the same word in reference to things we may own or want, or see or hear.
For instance, I recently said to my son, "I really love my car," and of course, being British, it is quite lovely. Just the same, if I tell my wife or son, "I love you," it should mean something much deeper.
Love describes not just a phrase we say to make someone feel better or get something from them. Love is far more than a passing emotion that comes and goes as the situation changes. As the Apostle John illustrates, love is self sacrifice.
John tells us that a person who says he loves God, yet hates his brother is a liar. That is a pretty tough standard to meet, but it's accurate. Think about it. If God is love, and we are trying to live like Him, showing hatred to others is the exact opposite of what God is.
Recent events in my life have brought this to the forefront of my thinking. If others try to hurt me or those I care about, it's natural for me to be angry, but Jesus said "Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you." This from the man who died for the very people who hated Him. Seems legit.
So, I'm refusing to be bitter. Every time the situation comes to mind I pray for all those involved by name. I may never know if my prayers have an effect on anyone else, but I know they're having one on me. My anxiety is fading, and I have no more anger, just a profound sadness for those still holding on to their anger.
God is love. Love is more than just a word, it is a way of life.
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